Detroit coach gives kids a fighting chance

A coach on the east side of Detroit is offering kids a place to work out, study and find community in a bleak area of the city that's seen great hardship. NBC's Chelsea Clinton reports.

By Mary Murray, Senior Producer, NBC News 

DETROIT -- Khali Sweeney, a boxing trainer on Detroit's east side, paced the cement floor and stared at the clock. It was 4 p.m. and just a handful of his 65 students had shown up for class.

"They'll be here," he promised.

But, over the next 30 minutes just one other kid walked through the door of the Downtown Boxing Gym.

We were there to shoot a story for ‘Nightly News with Brian Williams’ but, as the afternoon was slipping away, so too was our natural light. We were getting nervous.

‘No Cash For Gas’

"OK, I wasn't going to tell you but here's what's happening," Sweeney said. "We usually pick the kids up from school. But we ran out of money this month. No cash for gas."

He added, "Don't think bad on us."

At the time, his last remark made little sense.  Even outsiders could tell that this gym operates in a bleak place with scarce resources.

But the coach meant something else. He didn’t want anyone to think that he was complaining or looking for a handout. The 43-year-old Detroit native has a strict code of conduct.

'Step up and take responsibility'

For seven years the Downtown Boxing Gym has been a lifeline for a group of kids on Detroit’s east side.

When Sweeney grew up in the neighborhood, the area was “vibrant, and alive.” While the community had its share of problems, it also had commerce and factories that provided many with a livable wage.

Today, it is a just a shell.

Times are so tough that lots of city buses no longer run through this part of town and street lights have been shut off.

The economy may be rebounding in other parts of America, but here there are no signs that jobs are coming back.

For Sweeney, while driving around the neighborhood past vacant lots, crumbled foundations, and scores of homes burnt to the ground, many of the streets evoked family memories: the place his grandmother bought groceries, or the barbershop where he cut his hair. 

“That’s where my daughter graduated high school valedictorian,” he said, pointing at a three-story unused brick building.

The collapse of the auto industry brought Detroit to its knees.

“The other manufacturers pulled out,” said Sweeney. “And most everybody else went with them.”

But he worried about the ones who stayed, especially the children.

“A kid gets up in the morning, goes to school and he comes back to nothing,” said Sweeney. “At the same time, he sees all this stuff on TV and dreams of getting it, but there’s nobody around to show him the way to become a success.”

He stated that "kids are led astray when left on their own ... somebody needs to be their gatekeeper. Somebody needs to step up and take responsibility.”

Students describe the academic focus, discipline and inspiration they've gained from the Downtown Boxing Gym.

Sweeney opened the gym seven years ago, originally as a business. 

"I turned out to be lousy at making money," he laughed. But the truth is, Sweeney won’t take money from families that are just scraping by.

Statistically, Detroit holds the dual distinction of being both the most violent as well as the poorest city in America. The U.S. Census Bureau found that almost six Detroit kids in 10 are growing up in poverty.

In Sweeney’s experience, that’s overly generous.

"I dare you to find one kid here living the American dream," he challenged.

Michigan's official unemployment rate hovers around nine percent and Detroit’s is near 30 percent. Sweeney said at least half of the parents in his community are out of work while the rest earn minimum wage. 

"Families are just one paycheck away from being homeless,” he said. "It killed me to see parents choosing between paying for food or boxing lessons.”

So, he opened his doors to everyone, letting the kids train for free.

No one gives up around here’

The kids we were waiting for finally arrived after 5 p.m.

Despite the bitter January cold, the majority had walked at least a mile to arrive at the gym. Most wore nothing thicker than zipped-up hoodies -- no coats, gloves, hats or scarves. This wasn't a fashion statement. The smaller ones were visibly shivering.

Sweeney had a quick fix: he had the kids sweating soon enough.

The relative quiet exploded into a jumble of noise -- jump ropes slicing the air, fists pummeling speedballs, and grunts and hisses from kids beating heavy hanging bags.

Like a general inspecting his troops, Sweeney walked up and down rows of exercising kids and bellowed orders to perfect form. The stance of a seven-year-old was repositioned for better range and balance; another young boy received pointers on his sparring technique.

When one teen just didn’t throw a cross with his usual speed, Coach ordered, “down on the floor” -- his code for 20 push-ups.

“When you make a mistake in the ring, you end up on the floor,” warned Sweeney. “When you make a mistake here, you’re gonna end up on the floor.”

In the course of the afternoon, just about every kid ended up on the cement floor -- including a reluctant teen on his tough first day. Devin Graham’s “mistake” had been to suggest to the coach that maybe he should quit. Sweeney had just reprimanded some girls who had been teasing the 13-year-old about being overweight.

“No one gives up around here,” Sweeney said, and he worked with the boy one-on-one – he did sit-ups, ran in place, and then Sweeney laced him into his first pair of boxing gloves. Climbing into the ring, the coach held a pad and became the boy’s moving target.

When they finished, Sweeney brought Devin into a back room.

“Stop making excuses,” he said. "Boxing is hard work. Just tell me if you're up to the challenge. If you are, I’m here. But, if you’re not, leave now. I don’t like wasting my time."

In the weeks that have passed, Devin hasn’t missed a day.

Coach Khali Sweeney and the team behind the Downtown Boxing Gym in Detroit  describe their passion and commitment for the program and detail the way the gym focuses and inspires  students.          

Hit the books before the bag

Christal Berry joined the gym last year and said it “changed” her life. “Boxing is all I can think about,” she said.

She described herself as a “shy girl,” easily wounded by cruel remarks that would trigger her anger. She would obsess when something unpleasant happened.

“I couldn’t get it out of my head,” she said.

Christal weighed over 200 pounds when she met Khali last year. Then just 13 years old, the girl was afraid she would die.

The aerobics, rope jumping, and shadow boxing have helped her lose more than 50 pounds and feel mentally stronger too.

"I let people get under my skin and I just carry it with me the whole day … I feel a lot better after I get done hitting the bag," she said.

But before she gets to that, Christal, along with all the children here, must do their homework.

Lisa Dunn is the teacher who runs the mostly one-woman tutoring program that’s helping Christal raise her grades.

To stay in the gym, every kid must prove he or she is getting good grades. Both Sweeney and Lisa review school progress reports. A slipping grade means more time with Lisa, and less with the coach.

Sweeney came into Darien Richardson’s life at a time when he felt no one was in his corner.

“I just wanted to give up,” he said.

That was six years ago when Darien was sliding down the slope traveled by two-thirds of teens in this neighborhood. He was on the verge of dropping out of school.

“The coach convinced me to finish high school and go on to college,” he said. “He's that guy, that man you can talk to when anything's happening in your life.”

Kadeem Anderson used to get in a lot of fights -- the kind that was going to get him expelled from school.

The kid had a short fuse, according to his mother, Alice Anderson. She was tired of the constant calls from school to complain about another Kadeem misadventure.

Boxing brought his temper under control and the discipline to turn down temptation like drugs or wasting time in the street.

Now, "When bad stuff happens at school, Kadeem is the first to walk away,” said Alice. “I’m so proud of him.”

The 15-year-old is already a Downtown legend. In his first competitive fight, David won the regional Golden Gloves.

‘You give what you get’

Three people pour their heart and soul into making sure Downtown stays open -- Sweeney, Dunn and an idealist young woman named Jessica Hauser who stopped in one day a few years ago to watch a friend train with Sweeney.

“Right away I knew Khali was doing something important here and I wanted to help,” she said.

Little did she know that would mean going broke in the process.

"My mom's going to kill me when she hears this but I’ve drained my savings account to pay the bills," said Jessica.

Rent and electricity have to be paid every month along with a $1,200 heating bill in the winter. No one pulls a paycheck. When they can fill the tank, Sweeney and Jessica use their personal cars to shuttle the kids.

Sweeney has taken side jobs in construction and security when funds have run low. Friends too have stepped in to help.

Russ Russell manages “Forgotten Harvest,” an organization fighting hunger in Detroit for the past 20 years. Every week, he sends a truck of food to the gym.

And, we weren’t the only ones who noticed the kids had no winter coats. Russell contacted Meijer, a Michigan-headquartered superstore chain, who outfitted every Downtown kid with warm clothing free of charge.

Sweeney says many “good people in the community” have come to their rescue including retired attorney Ed Forton, who paid the bills for months, along with local businesses that include Avalon Bakery and Supino Pizza.

In return, Sweeney insists that the kids give back through monthly community service projects.

“Poverty is frightening for these kids,” said Sweeney. "They worry about food, about their parents getting sick. Boxing toughens them up.”

But he also wants to teach the kids that they are not powerless. “If you treat these kids like victims, they get this mentality of being helpless,” said Sweeney. “I’m obsessed with giving every kid in Detroit a fighting chance.”

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The kids in Detroit need a fighting chance, just like all kids do. So where is all the money that went into this "system" over the past three decades? From watching the television news report of this topic, it certainly didn't go into maintenance, and repair. Teach these kids to drive a bulldozer, and start leveling the despair. If they have the creativity to "tag", they have the creativity to beautify their neighborhood vacant areas with trees, flowers, and shrubs, after they've demolished the despicable structures they are calling buildings. The secret to great music, great artworks such as writing or architecture, great math and science and great engineering...IS A BLANK PIECE OF PAPER, AND BLANK LANDS ON WHICH TO BUILD. So tear down that slum crap, it's not doing anyone any good, and to give those kids a fighting chance, provide them some blank spaces to work with.

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Reply#1 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 7:47 PM EST
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Instead of teaching them how to fight, how about you teach them how to read, write, express themselves through music, poetry, etc.?

Teach these children something that will better themselves.

Fighting is good cardio, but will not pay the bills...

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#1.4 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 11:45 PM EST
Comment author avatarKelly Guilloryvia Facebook

@cory: I personally don't see anything wrong with supplemental physical activity. Let's keep in mind the rising obesity rates in this country? How Michigan is rated one of the fattest states in America?

    #1.5 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 2:22 AM EST
    Comment author avatarCedric Brownvia Facebook

    Cory, you do realize that the program also provides academic assistance to its students by, right? In fact, many of the kids in the program benefit greatly from that assistance than they do from the physical component. Maybe you missed the 100% high school graduation rate stats in the video. Or maybe, you didn't watch the video.....Anyway, get your facts right.

      #1.6 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 7:54 AM EST
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      Well, I suppose the longterm brain damage from boxing is preferable to being shot at 15.

        Reply#2 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 7:55 PM EST
        Comment author avatarCedric Brownvia Facebook

        Well, they wear head gear in competitions, so......

          #2.1 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 7:49 AM EST

          Yes, and so do football payers, but they still get injuries. The brain was not ment to be used as a punching bag.

            #2.2 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 11:08 AM EST
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            Comment author avatarJessica Hauservia Facebook

            Chelsea Clinton - thank you so much for coming here and we really appreciate your interest in Detroit, our families and our kids. I wanted to share with you a few updates on some of the stories since you have been here - Kadeem Anderson is being mentored by Oakland University Medical School. It is an amazing opportunity for this aspiring Neurosurgeon who at one time had no idea how to go about becoming a Doctor. By the way he recently won the Silver Glove States. And a shout out to our competition team - they are all ranked in the top 10 Nationally! To all who are interested learning more sign up on our mailing list atwww.downtownyouthboxing.org and like us on our facebook page -www.facebook.com/downtownboxing

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            Reply#3 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 8:20 PM EST
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            I'm SURE this gym is just going to turn Detroit right around-!

            30 years ago there were stories in the Detroit News about all these nice men who were working with poor kids in inner-city Detroit, trying to help them turn their life around. And where are they now? Nowhere, that's where. Detroit is DEAD. It is DEAD, and it will STAY DEAD for a LONG TIME!

            Why concern one's self with such a toilet as De-toilet? I say let it die! If the parents of those kids don't have enough sense to get the hell out then too bad!

              Reply#4 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 9:51 PM EST

              What a great program! Empowerment, Education, and Self-Reliance. It's got everything to get kids moving. I wish I had a boxing gym when I was their age. Kahli is building something with real impact and value. If this is just the beginning, I can't wait to see where it goes from here.

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              Reply#5 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 10:12 PM EST
              Comment author avatarLamont Bradleyvia Facebook

              Always good to see positive stories such as this taking place in a city where little hope is left. The efforts of the Downtown Boxing Gym are much needed and appreciated here in Detroit. The chance for underprivileged youth to come and learn about discipline and hard work; a chance at life, is exactly what the city needs. I commend Coach Khali and the staff at the Downtown Boxing Gym for taking the time out of their lives to give a piece of themselves to kids that need it most. The guidance and lessons learned here will never be forgotten. This program keeps them off the streets and into a program that offers them a chance at a better quality of life. The people here understand how hard it is to grow up here so we know that the work here is far from being done. However, this is the motor city: where champions are made! We are built differently than most and nothing will stop our drive. Go #DowntownBoxingGYMYouthProgram!!! May your light continue to shine!

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              Reply#6 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 10:15 PM EST

              I think it is so great what they are doing for those kids. This day and age we don't seem to get enough good people in the world willing to go out of their way to make sure kids are being given opportunities to be successful in life.
              Your tutoring must be paying off big time Lisa :-)

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              Reply#7 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 10:36 PM EST
              Comment author avatarRob Royvia Facebook

              Nice job, Detroit! There are so many positive things going on in our major city, and this focus on the total student, body and mind, is another bright light!

                Reply#9 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 8:03 AM EST

                What a great story. The coach and staff are doing wonderful work. Begin with boxing, increase their confidence and change their outlook, and that will trancend into all aspects of their lives. Hitting the mats AND hitting the books... fantastic. I hear the tutoring program is awesome. These kids need positive role models, and I can think of none better than Coach Khali and their tutor Lisa to help them gain perspective and make good decisions and choices that will change their lives for the better. Hopefully this National news story will increase this gym's funding and educate the ignorant who think nothing good can come from the city of Detroit. This story was well deserved, well received, and very inspiring--it certainly inspired me to help make a difference. Nice Job.

                  Reply#10 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 9:12 AM EST

                  There are many constructive programs for the youth in Detroit. Downtown Boxing Gym Youth Program is just one of them. Biases aside, providing youth options on how to develop themselves as human beings is the only way to ensure success.

                  Much like education, there are many ways to condition a person socially. The kids who work with Coach Khali excel through his style of mentorship. That cannot be understated. Along his support team, Coach Khali is cranking out stellar human beings. I salute him.

                    Reply#11 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 9:48 AM EST

                    All good intentions aside,

                    Hit the books and then hit your head,

                    Soon enough, you'll be brain dead.

                      Reply#12 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 4:42 PM EST

                      agreed

                        Reply#13 - Sun Mar 10, 2013 6:26 PM EDT
                        Comment author avatarShel Kimenvia Facebook

                        The program brings tremendous value to lots of people and I'm proud to call a city with this type of dedication to personal growth and resilience in the face of extreme adversity HOME. Thank you Downtown Detroit Boxing Gym.

                          Reply#14 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 3:51 PM EDT

                          agreed

                            Reply#15 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 3:57 PM EDT

                            This is an amazing program and we need more like it! I think it is great that the kids need to do well in school before they are able to box. They are being taught that school and responsibilities come first and fun comes later. It seems as if they are very disciplined and I hope this organization can continue to grow! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

                              Reply#16 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 4:48 PM EDT

                              The Downtown Boxing Gym Youth Program provides so much support to the
                              kids who participate. It is great that there are people really putting
                              their hearts into helping change those kids' lives which will
                              ultimately do much good for the city of Detroit as a whole. Thank you
                              DBGYP and also for this uplifting story!!

                                Reply#17 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:29 PM EDT

                                The Downtown Boxing Gym Youth Program provides so much support to the
                                kids who participate. It is great that there are people really putting
                                their hearts into helping change those kids' lives which will
                                ultimately do much good for the city of Detroit as a whole. Thank you
                                DBGYP and also for this uplifting story!!

                                  Reply#18 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:31 PM EDT

                                  I feel a lot of those comments are very un-Godly. I have personally seen the passion Coach Khali has for these kids. I know there are still good people who will help continue this program. Tell coach to keep up the good work!

                                    Reply#19 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:36 PM EDT

                                    I feel a lot of those comments are very un-Godly. I have personally seen the passion Coach Khali has for these kids. I know there are still good people who will help continue this program. Tell coach to keep up the good work!

                                      Reply#20 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:38 PM EDT

                                      March 9, 2013

                                      My wife and I are senior citizens. We live in Tulsa, OK. We were watching Brian Williams (The NBC Nightly News) last night, 3-8-2013, like we do every night.

                                      We saw the story about the Downtown Youth Boxing Gym in Detroit, MI.

                                      We were struck with how the children and young people in that area are being blessed by this program.

                                      In this day and age we all need to be helping each other as we can. We were especially impressed with what I call “the whole man” concept. Along with physical training these young people are learning discipline, “right thinking” and character development They are getting some food, help with their school work and encouragement to continue their studies so that they can not only have a real chance in life, but they can go out from there and “pay it forward”. This will help that once thriving community to rebuild and come to life again.

                                      I was wondering if it would be possible for you to do a follow up story. I am thinking that if you could perhaps interview more of the actual students and some of those who have already “gone out from there” it may help increase public awareness and support so as to help insure that program continues.

                                      We love Brian Williams and watching him is always a blessing for us.

                                      God bless you all and the work that you do.
                                      Rich and Betty Fowler

                                        Reply#21 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:46 PM EDT

                                        March 9, 2013

                                        My wife and I are senior citizens. We live in Tulsa, OK. We were watching Brian Williams (The NBC Nightly News) last night, 3-8-2013, like we do every night.

                                        We saw the story about the Downtown Youth Boxing Gym in Detroit, MI.

                                        We were struck with how the children and young people in that area are being blessed by this program.

                                        In this day and age we all need to be helping each other as we can. We were especially impressed with what I call “the whole man” concept. Along with physical training these young people are learning discipline, “right thinking” and character development They are getting some food, help with their school work and encouragement to continue their studies so that they can not only have a real chance in life, but they can go out from there and “pay it forward”. This will help that once thriving community to rebuild and come to life again.

                                        I was wondering if it would be possible for you to do a follow up story. I am thinking that if you could perhaps interview more of the actual students and some of those who have already “gone out from there” it may help increase public awareness and support so as to help insure that program continues.

                                        We love Brian Williams and watching him is always a blessing for us.

                                        God bless you all and the work that you do.
                                        Rich and Betty Fowler

                                          Reply#22 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:49 PM EDT
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                                          I feel a lot of those comments are very un-Godly. I have personally seen the passion Coach Khali has for these kids. I know there are still good people who will help continue this program. Tell coach to keep up the good work!

                                            Reply#23 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 5:57 PM EDT
                                            Comment author avatarKaren Endeanvia Facebook

                                            totally impressed, cant say enough about the great job that is going on, Boxing teaches respect, discipline, and sportsmanship....plus they get schooling, food and warm cloths, what up with the negative people is beyond me, yeap I guess walking the streets (dark streets) being cold and hungry is better than what this coach and his team are doing, ohhh I dont think so. You guys just keep up the good work! Great Job!

                                              Reply#24 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 7:57 PM EDT

                                              Totaly inspiring!! Don't give up on the kids.

                                                Reply#25 - Mon Mar 11, 2013 10:39 PM EDT

                                                Excellent Article.

                                                  Reply#26 - Tue Mar 12, 2013 6:19 AM EDT
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